Dating or, God forbid, married to a Scorpio? Dude, we feel your pain. It’s not easy being you. It’s so not easy that’s there’s even a whole day devoted to supporting you. That’s right, November 18th is actually Married to a Scorpio Support Day.
Why do you need a support day? Well, if you’re with a Scorpio, then you can probably appreciate that she is loyal, dynamic, passionate and imaginative. However, you’ve probably also grown to realize that she can be dominant, jealous, obsessive and manipulative. Like every woman, Scorpios have positive and negative traits. It would just be easier if Scorpios didn’t believe that every negative trait was all your fault.
I’m not saying I buy too much into astrology, however, when I heard about this day I was compelled to dig a little deeper. Scorpios are anyone who were born between October 24 and November 22. If you are with a Scorpio woman, then you know she is intense and passionate. She’s a natural born leader, a hard worker, ambitious, and a great bullshit detector. However, just like her arthropod namesake, she is full of venom and isn’t afraid to use it to her advantage.
Scorpions are very choosy and need an alpha male (so kudos to me!) who can challenge her intellectually and sexually. She likes to dominate but also be dominated. The trick is knowing what she wants. She’ll never tell you what she wants but will expect you to know it and heaven help you if you don’t. She’ll want to take care of everything herself, except when she doesn’t and then you end up looking like an idiot because you couldn’t read her mind. She can be very jealous so don’t casually flirt when she’s in the room. And she’s always right, like always. So don’t even try to get into an argument unless you’re in it for the long haul.
In short, Scorpio women can be very difficult to be in a relationship with. However, the intensity and ferocity with which they love can make it all worthwhile, most of the time. Good luck!